People reveal their tried and tested break-up cures

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Some people are so devastated they hide themselves away from the world, while others fling themselves into life with a manic enthusiasm to keep their mind off things.

Everyone deals with break-ups differently, and now people who have been heartbroken have taken to Reddit to share their best remedies for getting over someone. 

The thread, which received over 300 comments in less than 24 hours, included tips such as taking the opportunity to go travelling to the less advisable advice of sleeping around.

 People have been sharing their tried and tested break-up remedies, including promiscuity, travel and lots of cake, on Reddit (picture posed by model) 

From sleeping around to keeping busy and turning to travel, people have shared their experiences in the hopes that it might help somebody else

However, some admitted that they had struggled to cope with the end of a relationship and one entered a depressive hibernation, straining all of their social ties in the process.

While making a vow to block all forms of contact, he ended up refreshing his ex-girlfriend’s social media page constantly to see what she was up to.

The Redditor even turned to religious means to try and find fulfillment but nothing really worked. He also tried cake, he added. 

Another claimed that sleeping with ‘lots and lots of men’ was the easy way to get over the end of a relationship.

LeTyman said that time and keeping busy with friends and hobbies helped them get over their ex

A fellow Redditor agreed, saying that in all honesty what got them through it was having a one-night-stand with a friend of a friend. 

Najsb took to the forum to say that they had to block and delete all forms of contact with their ex and start doing lots of walks and new hobbies. 

Fellow Redditors agreed that spending time working on yourself is massively important.

Taking time to rediscover your hobbies and get to know yourself again was highly recommended (picture posed by model)

They transferred the time they spent on their other half to themselves and were able to get back into socialising more and playing sports again. 

Others took the time to ‘date’ themselves and get to know who they are again. 

However, Najsb also recommended not holding back any tears and to let yourself feel it because it will eventually pass.   

A lot of Redditors agreed with this sentiment and said that time healed their wounds, finding that one day they woke up and didn’t care anymore.

Redditors also agreed that spending time working on yourself is massively important. They transferred the time they spent on their other half to themselves and were able to get back into socialising more and playing sports again

Although it sounds like hard advice to follow, Gregisbae said you should just accept things as they are and not to dwell on it or feel sorry for yourself that you’re not with the other person anymore. 

Travel was highly recommended with one Redittor quitting their job for a two-month cross country trip  while another travelled to a beautiful island in Indonesia for two weeks and found it helped. 

Unfortunately, some people were brutally honest and admitted that they never really did get over their break-up.

Ganonderf said they never got over it and they that just learned to live with the loss. Somebody else simply said that as soon as they figure it out, they’ll let Reddit know

They dated a little elsewhere but deep down knew that their heart was still in ruins. 

One person signed off by saying ‘Thanks for reminding me.’ 

Ganonderf said they never got over it and they that just learned to live with the loss.

Somebody else simply said that as soon as they figure it out, they’ll let Reddit know.  

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